The Case of: The Head Pushers...pun intended.

So, I'm in conversation with my dear friend Lady Closet Kink (who will be adding posts occasionally), and the subject of "The Head Pushers" comes up.  Ironically enough, the subject matter can have a figurative and literal meaning pertaining to the same thing, head.  

Now, I'm not shy about the fact that I like to give head (except the fact that this blog has NO connection to my real name, lol).  If you go back a few posts, you can read about the nightmare I had about not being the best at it with my lover.  In the opinions Lady Closet Kink and myself, the man who receives that is (very exclusively) lucky as HELL!  Mainly because, we're damn good at it.  

There are several fundamentals that we feel too many men need to know.  So, in order to level the playing field here ya go:

• Unless given prior consent, putting your hands in the hair of a black woman is a dangerous move.
• If I want to do it, you'll know it...and I'll do it.
• Asking for it is DOING THE MOST, and it's really not sexy at all.
• If I don't give you head, I don't like you that much.
• "...so if I don't like you that much and you're trying to be pushy, I might attack you...and not in a good way." - Lady Closet Kink....Women should reserve their right to catch an attitude when it comes to this.  LOL

I know that it is extremely rare to find a mind reader, so my lover gets little signals from me to know just how badly I want him.  There are of course different signals for different scenarios.  Of course the subtle wink is always a cute one when out, about, and horny.  It's playful and a "wait til I get you alone" expression.  There's the bold, middle-of-the-day text telling him exactly what I want to do to him.  When we actually get behind closed doors and shit is getting ready to get hot, I can't keep my mouth off of him.  Sucking, licking, a lil biting everywhere EXCEPT where I really want to.  Then, of course I does what I does...with HIM. 

*Haha, you nasties please remember, I'm VERY picky about who my lover is because I care about my health and my sex drive.  Also, because I want to be able to really have fun with my lover when we're together. *

*whispers* Psst, ladies...also, it's been my experience, that if you suck his dick good enough...he'll want to return the favor, no coaxing needed.  

Give to receive.  ;-)